Posts by Sail Away

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"New Kingdom Halls Being Built Around the World.........."

by The Fall Guy in

that's what a very elderly jw sister said to me this afternoon, in response to all the sell-offs.

i didn't contradict her - she's far too close to the end, but if it had been a younger jw i'd have suggested this:.

"isn't it a pity that the society doesn't have a section on its web site where it could post photographs of all the new kingdom halls that are getting built every week/month?

Sail Away

My deluded 90-year-old JW FIL believes that his multi-milion $$$$ estate will fund new KHs all over the world. There's no helping the man.

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JWs and 9-11. What was your reaction when it happened?

by kairos in

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friends

it was shocking.. all these years later, i found myself crying for the dead for the first time..

I was volunteering in the Special Education Resource Room at my son's high school. One poor teen with Autism was desperate to reach his mother in NY by cell phone. I did my best to reassure him. It took hours for him to get through, and she was fine, but it was a heartbreaking experience.

When I got home I talked with my neighbors. I knew they worked in a law firm in Manhattan. The offices were destroyed, but no lives lost, as their firm was on a lower floor. They were quite shaken.

I couldn't reconcile the glee of local JWs anticipating the outbreak of Armageddon when so many people were suffering. I watched only one news report with all the horrific scenes. It still took me 10 more years to wake up and leave the organization, but this was one of the many straws that broke the camel's back.

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Do you like to experiment when cooking?

by Xanthippe in

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friends

just lately i've become weary of following recipes in books or online.

recently when on holiday in the lake district i wanted to make pasta with a tomato and cheese sauce but the only interesting cheese they had at the local store was a somerset brie.

i discovered when peeled of its skin and tossed in with tomatoes and pasta it melts beautifully and tasted amazing.

Sail Away

LoveUniHateExams, have you tried Thai fish soup/stew made with coconut milk? How about red lentil soup?

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Do you like to experiment when cooking?

by Xanthippe in

jw
friends

just lately i've become weary of following recipes in books or online.

recently when on holiday in the lake district i wanted to make pasta with a tomato and cheese sauce but the only interesting cheese they had at the local store was a somerset brie.

i discovered when peeled of its skin and tossed in with tomatoes and pasta it melts beautifully and tasted amazing.

Sail Away

Xanthippe, I love Jazz Cooking (Thanks JP!) It works well for most dishes, but you have to be careful not to go too crazy with altering recipes for baked desserts, otherwise they might not rise properly. My main approach is to read a lot of recipes. I love cookbooks with all the beautiful photos, especially ones focused on a particular culture. I narrow the recipes down to one or two that will provide the best overall structure (proportions, cooking method, fresh ingredients, etc.) and then wing it from there.

Years ago I went through an Indian phase-- curries, dahls, rice pudding etc. I am a huge fan of Mediterranean cooking and love serving Meze and Tapas, even for a weekday dinner. Years ago I ventured into Greek cooking and learned how to make moussaka and how to cook with phyllo dough. I enjoy making spanikopita and baklava-- both a lot of work, but well worth it for a dinner party. I find Mexican recipes (tacos, burritos, tortillas, fajitas, enchiladas, etc.) to be quick and easy and very adaptable to whatever I have in the pantry and refrigerator at the time. Summer guacamole is the best!

One time I made seafood risotto for 30 people, and it was a hit, but I wouldn't do that much work again! One dessert that is simply beautiful is Julia Child's recipe for a French Apple Tart, but it is an all-day project. I just hosted a summer barbecue and finally learned how to make moist and tender grilled chicken. I also found a recipe called Farmer's Market Parpadelle. The only thing I added was shaved parmesan on top. Several guests asked for the recipe-- it just tastes like summer to me, so simple with fresh veggies and herbs. PM me for the recipes if you like.

I'm traveling to Portugal and Spain in a few weeks to check out retirement possibilities and will definitely be checking out the local cuisine!

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The Unveiling

by Wake Me Up Before You Jo-Ho in

ladies and gentlemen, i proudly present you with mr and mrs @stucknomore2.0:.

https://youtu.be/o9bqz9jj_qg.

sacha and sherrie, you've done an amazing job in spreading the word about this forum, and it is my sincerest hope that the plug you made brings some newcomers in.

Sail Away

Thank you for posting this Wake Me Up. What a beautiful couple! Hopefully, their sincerity will resonate with those still trapped in the organization.

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Jehovah’s Witness dating rules

by Addison0998 in

i’m sorry that i talk about dating a lot, i know it is probably very annoying, but you don’t have to read it.

but did anyone else have the most difficult time dating as a young jw?

me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year in half, we are in our early 20’s, and we are still not allowed to hold hands, cuddle or kiss.

Sail Away

My husband and I dated for only 3 months before we married. We dated under the same circumstances you describe. We got married in 1978. He was 27 and had been a FT Pioneer and a MS at his assigned Bethel congregation. I was 19. This is essentially arranged marriage. The organization, the elders and your parents tell you who is acceptable to marry, when and where to get married. Some arranged marriages work out. Some don't. Sexual incompatibility is a painful thing. Please don't wait to find out until you are married that it was a mistake.

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shameless pride in my daughter in law

by nonjwspouse in

she is two weeks postpartum after having my granddaughter when she sang this .

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rulm5zl-isa.

Sail Away

What fun!

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Eldub BIL, and Df'ed Kid's!!!!

by DwainBowman in

my super fine eldub bil, has a son that's been df'ed for a long time.

last month he deeded off 1/4 of an acre of land in the back of his pasture, bought a small local built used tiny house, and got it all set up, for his son to live in.

to everyone of the jw's in this area really look up to him and his stand on having nothing to do with his df'ed kid's or grandkids.

Sail Away

This hypocrisy is one of the main reasons I walked away from the organization. We had six elders. Half said I had to shun my DF'd son when he moved out of our home, because if we lived in ancient Israel, as parents we would have to cast the first stone. The other half said to go ahead and visit as a wellness check, just don't say anything in the congregation. As a true believer, I couldn't reconcile this.

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Morphs law

by _Morpheus in

regarding morphs laws and its simple expression: its a direct parallel to godwins law on internet debates.

goodwins law states:.

as an online discussion grows longer, the greater the probability of a comparison involving hitler approaches.

Sail Away

Goodwin's Law, hence Morph's Law. --Sail Away, on behalf of the grammar police ;)

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What is the number 3 talk?

by carla in

i was enjoying the funny memes thread https://www.jehovahs-witness.com/topic/4796195022045184/funny-ex-jw-memes.

but what is the number 3 talk?

there were a few references to that particular talk.

Sail Away

cha ching, you made me choke on my tea! At least you have a sense of humor about it!

My school overseer invented and assigned his own settings, like 'informally witnessing in a supermarket to a Muslim woman' (about the 70 Weeks of Years or some other inane topic that would never come up). Tell your hubby it was brutal!

Hope to meet you at Flipper's Apostafest sometime soon!